What is fair depends on the ethical and moral paradigm in which a certain society lives, therefore it will vary according to the country, the population, the group, and the person. Everything in this life depends on multiple variables, sometimes it depends on us and sometimes not. But, as well as the cold or heat, the good and the bad; justice does not exist without an opposite, we could not distinguish just acts if there were no injustice. But beyond all that, life has no obligation to be fair, or to comply with the parameters of what we consider fair. Pretending that just for acting in the right way life is going to reward you with what you think you deserve, is an act of faith that will also end up frustrating you when you don’t receive what you expected. We must teach our children to distinguish between something fair and unfair according to the culture or society in which we live.

Life in childhood and adolescence is based on family life and also on friendships. Children need to have friends to develop as people and better develop their social skills. Parents must ensure that their children learn to make friends as this will help them to be successful in life. Strong friendships are also important for children’s self-esteem and sense of belonging. It is important to constantly remind our children that quantity does not matter but quality, having good friends defines our quality of life, since these will be our support and our rock in the future, a true friend that lasts for life.

Children’s creativity is a skill that must be constantly promoted. It is more of a constant exercise than an innate talent; since it is something that we can develop in them, as parents we can stimulate it through different strategies that can be included in the daily routine. If we stimulate it, our children may not develop their creativity in the best way. All boys and girls are born with a great capacity to use their imagination and create. However, over the years it happens that it is lost and in some cases it disappears completely. It disappears because we make some mistakes in our way of educating that little by little destroy children’s creativity capacity or because we develop their logical thinking a lot but we do not do the same with their creative side and their spatial development.

Gratitude isn’t taught by just doing activities, telling our kids to be thankful, or telling kids not to forget to say thank you very much. This is the first step, but gratitude is a wonderful attribute that can make a huge difference in life from childhood to adulthood. There are various studies done on the benefits of gratitude agree that having an attitude of gratitude in life helps people to be happier. People who are genuinely grateful have better friendships and relationships, are calmer, more positive, and live better.

To new readers and old readers today we want to tell you some of the traditions that we have in our country, you can share your traditions in the comment box so that we can share what we do on these special dates and that as a community we share and let’s learn from everyone together.

The days are approaching and we are about to reach Christmas, at 123pormi we cannot be happier. This Christmas has been magical and as always we share small ideas to do as a family so that we can make our children’s Christmas happier and special. Today we are going to share some photos or ideas of Christmas packaging, usually children see that we pack gifts and that we give details to the family, because the best way to involve them and for them to contribute to these gifts is for them to help us to pack the gifts.

It is a list of ideas and activities to do at Christmas with the family where the slow pace, not getting too complicated and enjoying is the keynote in all of them. On behalf of 123pormi we share them with you, in case you want to not have to think a lot and inspire you so that then things flow by themselves … Here they go: