If Pixar has a superpower, it’s definitely this one: it makes movies that kids enjoy with laughter and adventure, but that leave adults existentially dehydrated and questioning our family relationships. Onward is no exception.
The story follows Ian and Barley, two teenage elf brothers living in a world where magic has been relegated to the history books. Everything changes when they discover a spell that could bring their deceased father back for just one day. The small detail is that they only manage to materialize the lower half of his body (yes, pants with shoes that walk on their own, thanks Pixar). From there, an adventure begins to complete the spell before the day is over.
But the truly magical thing about Onward isn’t the dragons, the mythological creatures, or even the spells. It’s the emotional and psychological undercurrent that resonates with children and adults alike.
What does Onward represent in the inner world of children?
This journey has much of what Vygotsky would call a zone of emotional proximal development. Ian, the younger brother, begins the story feeling incapable, insecure, «less» than the others. His inner voice is full of doubts and fears, and he needs—like all children—a supportive figure who serves as an emotional scaffolding to dare to be. In this case, that scaffolding is his brother Barley: loud, eccentric, and seemingly clumsy, but with brilliant emotional intuition.
The film brings into play a key learning experience for child development: trust. And not an imposed trust, but one born of experience, trial and error, and living things together. Along the way, Ian discovers that everything he needed was already within him… but he needed a safe and loving environment in which to see it.
Absence as a Narrative Driving Force
The figure of the absent father is not only literal, but deeply symbolic. Onward speaks about partial orphanhood, a reality more common in childhood than we think. But it does so with tenderness, respect, and above all, with an emotional clarity that allows children to process loss or absence from a place of curiosity rather than pain.
The film doesn’t wallow in sadness. It reminds us that some losses cannot be changed, but that there are also invisible presences that sustain everyday life: brothers, mothers, loving figures who care without being heroes, but who work magic every day.
Family as an Emotional Network
In a world full of spells and adventures, true power lies in emotional connection. Ian believes he needs to know his father to feel whole, but ends up discovering that he’s already had a father figure all along. Barley, the clumsy but brave brother, has been his guide, his caregiver, his source of stories, his personal cheerleader.
Here comes one of the most beautiful theories of developmental psychology: relational resilience. It’s not so much what’s missing that matters, but what’s built with what’s there. When children feel emotionally supported, they can fill even the biggest voids with tenderness, courage, and meaning.
And what’s the point?
The point of Onward is that sometimes we go through life looking for figures to complete us, without realizing that we’ve already been deeply loved and supported by those who have been there all along, even if they haven’t had a cloak, sword, or official title. The magic isn’t in bringing back what’s lost, but in recognizing the value of what’s present.
Sometimes our children don’t need big answers, but rather help them look with fresh eyes at what’s always been there: a mom who improvises spells in the form of cookies, a brother who never stops talking but never stops being there, or an adult who, like you, teaches them that every adventure, no matter how ordinary it may seem, can be extraordinary if it’s done with love.






